Bi sexual camchats
I went on to date a number of trans guys, and in my mind, “bi” was also indicative of a gender binary I didn’t believe existed.
When I came out to the world, at the ripe age of 22, I vowed I would never, ever slut-shame myself again. I’ve heard some sex advice gurus say things like “Once you’ve had your friend’s penis in your mouth, there’s nothing you can’t discuss.” I don’t think that’s true.When I find you attractive, I want to sleep with you. We don’t seem comfortable being straightforward: He has a plump butt, and I’d like to eat it. But I will take issue if you’re monogamous simply because everyone else is.It’s that simple, and I’m fairly confident I’m not the only queer man who feels this way. Simply because you’ve drunk too much of society’s Kool-Aid that’s told you monogamy equals good, wholesome, and ideal, whereas nonmonogamy equals bad, pathological, and immoral.Dan Savage once observed that “most adult bisexuals, for whatever reason, wind up in opposite-sex relationships.” Whether or not you’re a fan of Savage (or his sometimes dubious takes on bisexuality), the statistics support his assertion: The massive 2013 Pew Research LGBT Survey found 84 percent of self-identified bisexuals in committed relationships have a partner of the opposite sex, while only 9 percent are in same-sex relationships. Because on the surface, the fact that 84 percent of bisexuals eventually wind up in opposite-sex partnerships could appear to support the notion that bisexuality is, as people so often insist, actually either “just a phase” or a stepping-stone on the path to “full-blown gayness.” Knowing that wasn’t true, I decided to investigate.Some of my initial suppositions included internalized homophobia, fear of community and family rejection, and concerns over physical safety.